FAQ
Can this tool determine someone's motive?
No — and it doesn't try to. Motive is internal. It lives inside a person and is rarely fully knowable, even to themselves. What this tool observes is pattern: what was said, how it was framed, what came first, what was left out. Those are things that actually showed up in the exchange.
The distinction matters. Two people can produce the exact same communication pattern for completely different reasons. Someone who skips emotional acknowledgment and goes straight to logistics might be anxious, might be autistic, might be having a bad day, or might simply be wired that way. This tool doesn't claim to know which. It says: here is a pattern that research associates with a particular cognitive style. It may be relevant. It may not.
Misjudging motive is one of the most common sources of conflict in relationships — and it's exactly what this tool is designed to reduce. By focusing on observable patterns rather than assumed intent, it gives you a more stable foundation for understanding what happened, without putting words in anyone's head.